​She is not a friend.
She is not a healthcare provider,
She is a mother figure of the most ancient kind.
Her life experience empowers you.
She is a reassuring presence who will always listen to you and support you in your chosen path.
When you are doubtful or anxious, she will remind you of those choices - and the reason you made them.  
She sees you, the real you.
Her understanding of your journey supports your self-confidence.
She eases pain with a touch, a word, and a look. 
She is a Doula.